What do guys look for in a girl?

It is the desire of every woman to live a romantic love story with a great man. Women want to be wrapped in passion, embraced and caressed by the warm fires of love. But unfortunately, reality is not like that. It is only a statistical probability that is one billion times harder than winning the lottery that a woman will ever find it. 
 
To be realistic, what do real guys look for in a girl? What does a man really want?
You're wrong if you think it's all about having fun in the sack.

A real man actually looks for beauty, elegance, support, and mothering abilities in a feminine woman whom he wants to be his girlfriend or future wife. But he also checks if he can have some fun in the sack with you.

A real man commits to a lover who can support his needs and wants. So many relationships fail in the first several months because mutual needs are not being met. Men and women differ greatly in their communication abilities and capacity to feel and express love.

So the first few months in a relationship are just the tip of the iceberg. The real challenge is the long term relationship that lasts a lifetime. Gender roles are a healthy boundary to maintaining masculine and feminine energies in a relationship.

We learn about gender roles through stories and experiences as a child. A real man doesn't want to be like the frog that turns into a prince. And while no man wants to be the frog you have to kiss, if he's not acting like the prince that he should be, you know he's turning into a frog.

A real man should aspire to become the prince or the knight in shining armor for his princess. But are you a princess in all its definition? You will need to have the manners of a real princess and not be spoiled. While having such high standards is good, the main problem is the amount of work you need to do to maintain it. It's a challenge.

Even if you don't feel ready to commit yourself to having good manners and being as polite and feminine as you can be, just start thinking about it. 

Begin to take baby steps towards allowing yourself to understand the reason why being a real 'princess' is good for your personal self development. Talk like a lady and connect with your feminine role models. This will help you tremendously, and more and more men will notice the difference in you. In return, they will start to feel attracted to you and may start to pursue you. They will call, email, write love letters and even fight to vie for your attention.

The sooner women understand this, the better. Instead of fruitlessly pining over a man, you can attract a man with your feminine charm. The sooner you will be able to find happiness. It is always a great sight to witness a man being crazy in love over a woman he's genuinely interested in.

And it's a lot better than being single, growing old and withering away unloved.

If you want to be remembered as being a great woman, then it's time you step up your game and really let your man see your feminine qualities. Attracting men is all about being well rounded in both masculine and feminine ways.

Those who understand this seem to know intuitively how to captivate one of the opposite sexes beyond imagination. Ladies! Are You Ready To Kiss your 'Man Problems' Goodbye?

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